How often in the adult world when we fail in achieving
something, or simply make mistakes, do we lose that spirit which once infected
us when we were young?
Most people are afraid to fail. They worry
constantly about not meeting expectations, making a mistake, or trying
something new. Because of this, many never get started on the path toward
reaching their goals .. and thus they assure themselves of the very thing they
are afraid of .. failure. In order to
become a successful entrepreneur you will likely have to 'pay your dues.'
You'll likely have to fail a few times, learn from your lessons, and only then
be able to come through a winner. While you don't have to take wild chances,
you do have to take calculated and educated risks.
In the world of academics, mistakes are perceived
as bad and to be avoided. For the first twenty-two years of your life, you are
taught that mistakes are bad and embarrassing .. when in fact mistakes are
simply opportunities to learn something new. The more mistakes a person makes,
the more they will have learned and the greater chance they will have of
succeeding on their next try. The key, however, is to learn from your mistakes
and not make the same mistake twice.
Thomas Edison would have never invented the light
bulb if he had not taken this principle to heart. Edison failed more than
10,000 times before he found the filament that would create light for a
sustained period of time. He did not view these as failures, however. Do you think that on his 6,635th try to find a
proper filament for the light bulb, he saw himself as having failed 6634
times? Of course not: he simply reframed
the situation so that to him he had successfully eliminated 6,634
possibilities, refining and narrowing his search as he proceeded, drawing him
closer and closer to his goal.
Two other failures you may have heard of are Levi
Strauss and Christopher Columbus. Strauss headed for the gold mines of
California in hopes of gold and glory. But he found none. Instead, this failure
gave him new knowledge of a gap in the marketplace. He began selling pants made
out of canvas to those miners that were succeeding. Today, we've all heard of
Levi Strauss jeans. Columbus failed miserably on his goal to find a route to India.
However, in failing that he ran into a new opportunity.. that of discovering the
New World.
By taking action and learning from your mistakes
and failures, you'll gain new knowledge and become aware of many new
opportunities. When you come to the edge of what you know, it's time to make
some mistakes.
If you have reached the edge of your career after a
number of years and are feeling enormously tired, it's time for you to make
some mistakes. Try making some daring approaches to your work. If the only
solution is for you to seek another new job, do it. If being enterprising is
what you desire, go for it. To put
yourself in a catch-22 situation will not help you move on. If you keep doing the same thing, you will get
the same result.
Anthony Robbins said that insanity is when you keep
doing the same thing and hoping for a different result. An instant mistake that will reap you a new
learning experience is certainly much better than years of clinging on to the
same old mistake and doing nothing at all.
Author: Aaron Loh
Awesome
ReplyDeleteI love it... just what I needed to make a decision. Thank you
ReplyDeleteI forget who said it but I had to share:
ReplyDelete"You want to fail fast and fail forward. That's the secret of success nobody talks about."
I believe this is going to be a solution to many affected individuals once the get there hands on this information
ReplyDeleteExcellent stuff - we learn by making mistakes, but then we're taught that mistakes are bad :( One way to overcome this is to start asking yourself better questions. Instead of "Why can I never get it right?" try "How could I learn to do this?" - there's a very useful article on the subject here: Asking better questions
ReplyDeleteKeep learning :)
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